Rambling through cemeteries, and searching for tombstones,
was always a favorite pastime for my mother and me, when I would come home for
a visit. For over 30 years, I've been researching my family - the various
branches on the many trees of Walker, Anderson, Allen, Gibson, Duckworth,
Miller, Hester, Langford, and the list goes on and on. Going back just 10
generations, to your 8th great grandparents, you have 1,024 ancestors from
which to select. In addition, if you choose to track some of your indirect
lines (aunts, uncles, cousins, etc.); you will have a database with thousands
of names.
My mom and dad's grandmothers were sisters, making my
parents third cousins. My mother had a great memory and seemed to store as much
information in her head as I do, on my laptop. She knew as much, or more, about
my dad's family than he did (and was a lot more interested than he was!)
On one of my trips home, mother had a cemetery trip all
planned. Dad's grandmother, on his mother's side, was an Allen. Someone had
told mom, that there was an old Allen cemetery, in the county, and she wanted
to find it. She pulled out the directions she had been given, and we headed out
on our adventure. We were just certain this was to be a great day for
collecting names and dates of ancestors.
Up Hwy 531 we went, and from there, I have no idea what
country roads we took or how we finally made our way back home much later that
same day. We stopped, several times, to inquire about the "Old Allen
Cemetery" and were
usually met with blank stares and shaking heads. Finally, we found someone who
thought he knew where it might be.
We found the burial ground (it was no longer a cemetery).
The few graves, many of the stones were broken and destroyed (reminiscent of
our family's Old Miller Cemetery)
sat in the middle of a pasture filled with cows AND bulls. Not being a brave
soul, anyway, I was not sure just how interested I was now. My family tree
might have to exist without these Allens!
Mom had a brilliant idea. I was to stop and let her out of
the car on the road at the far corner of the pasture. Mom would call the cows,
and bulls (as far as I was concerned, the bulls were the ones I was worried
about) to the fence. While she had them "cornered" I was to get into
the pasture and record the information. Now, mom was an old farm girl, and knew
how to call the cows in, so I had no doubt this would be a success.
After mom was in place, I turned into the little road to the
pasture and stopped just short of the cattle gap. As we had planned, I tooted
the car horn to let her know I was ready to go in. As soon as I heard mom
calling and saw them turn to go to the sound of her voice ......I began to make
my way over the cattle gap and the downed, but treacherous, barbed wire fence.
I was wandering slowly, with my pad and pencil, through the
few remaining stones when I heard mom yelling (quite frantically) "Run,
Sarah, Run"! My feet didn't stop until I was over the barbed wire and
across the cattle gap. Now, I'm sure cattle gaps keep bulls in, but I didn't
feel safe until I was back in the car. Staring at me and pawing the ground, on
the other side, was a very mad bull.
When I stopped to pick mom up, she asked "Did you find
many Allens?" My reply "Not a one! It wasn't an Allen Cemetery."
And I'm still searching for Allens!